"There isn't really a script for fat people to do it," she says of coming out. "I try not to shoe hornet into conversations, but i do try and make sure that it is present in my first couple of conversations with someone" She also talks about her own self-loathing over being fat at 5'6", having spent 20 years hiding from her body. 'It doesn't feel emotionally heavy to me to talk about being fat.'