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Disrupting the Underfunctioning/Overfunctioning Dynamic

Reimagining Love

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Do You Have Strategic Incompetence?

If you're sensitive to feeling controlled, directed, micro managed, criticized, take back your power by flipping the dynamic and putting yourself in the driver's seat. If part of your under functioning is that you kind of feel like you shouldn't have to do it, or it's not that fun, so you don't do it, i really do want you to frame for yourself that your goal is to feel like you get a reward when you step up. I've definitely had clients who actually don't want their partner to acknowledge their efforts, because it can be very hard for them to feel the difference between being praised and being patronized. So check in with yourself and get clear on that

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