How Committed Am I to This?

The first question that you need to ask yourself is always, how committed i am to this? And that might be a hard question to answer, but it is going to be a personal responsei cannot give you any prescriptions for this. You have to look at the behaviour you're trying to build, and ask yourself, how committed am i? If not, maybe you're not that committed yet. But you don't have to be. You can build that over time if you choose to. Once you know the answer, it's going to change your strategy.