Do You Know How to Like Break Grips Off Your Lapel?

Sometimes in jujitsu, there's a disconnect between someone who is maybe being really arrogant or cocky or rude and doesn't realize that maybe they just sort of grew up in a family where people bust balls and joke around a different way. So I love that you pointed that out that it's good to talk to people and give them a chance because sometimes it's not always what it seems. Now in that same situation that you're talking about, I have seen and I don't know about the gym that you're at or whatever that situation usually happens - particularly when we start sparring too fast. The people who are introduced, not always, but usually to sparring way too fast