This chapter explores the drawbacks of relying on others' values, emphasizing the significance of individuall values and accountability for personal experiences. It suggests leading by example, asking thoughtful questions to encourage self-reflection, and providing unconditional assistance without imposing one's own solutions.
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Episode 2020:
Mark Manson's article, "No, You Can't Make a Person Change," delves into the intricate dynamics of personal development. Manson argues that true change must originate from within, emphasizing the pitfalls of relying on external value systems and the importance of self-responsibility. He explores effective ways to support others in their journey of self-improvement without overstepping personal boundaries.
Read along with the original article(s) here:
https://markmanson.net/no-you-cant-make-a-person-change
Quotes to ponder:
"I don’t get to decide what makes you a better person. And even if I did decide, the fact that I told you to do it, rather than you doing it for yourself, robs you of most of the emotional benefits."
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