Common Knowledge and the Science of Civility, Democracy, Outrage and Taboo

I'm going to start writing a book in two years whose tentative title is Don't Go There, Common Knowledge and the Science of Civility, Democracy, Outrage and Taboo. I think we have rules that are like don't disrupt too much of someone's map territory with any given utterance. It might be too much for you to stand to be outright rejected by or rejected by someone that you're sexually attracted to because it casts light on your validity as a acceptable source of DNA let's say. But to play a bit and to tease a bit and allow you to accept carefully and casually delivered playful rejection without it having to go way down into the depths of your character? To me