423 - Boundaries are all about YourSELF
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
00:00
How to Evaluate Your Boundaries
Ask yourself, did anything surprising happen the last time you enforced your boundary? What feelings came up when you had to enforce it? Have you been able to enforce your boundary across multiple scenarios and with multiple people? Maybe this comes up in other places in Dettaker's life with other people as well. Are you finding that this boundary is too restrictive or too general, too rigid or too porous? Does the boundary rely on a behavioral change from the other person or some external change out of your control? You don't want to have to rely on somebody else to fix this issue for you.
Transcript
Play full episode
