The Worst Way to Convince Someone

The first thing that i want you all to dispense with is any kind of debate or argument, ok? It is the worst way to convince someone. The more evidence you have on your side, the more the other person feels bullied and persecuted because they can't defend themselves. So just let go of like trying to convince them through argument, because it's not going to work. Second thing is, let go of judgment. Most people like assume that they're right. But what we so like, i think i'm right, the other person thinks that they'reright. And if you go into a conversation convinced that the other person is an idiot and is wrong, your chances of convincing