The chapter explores the importance of finding a partner who accepts and loves you as you are, without the need to conform to expectations. It introduces the author, Jenny TeGrotenhuis, and discusses the struggles of a client named Jenny, who battles with perfectionism and the pressure to be productive.
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Episode 2044:
Discover how trauma from the past can unconsciously shape present relationships, leading to patterns of protection over connection. Gabor Maté's insights guide the journey towards understanding and healing, empowering individuals to transform their trauma responses and reclaim their story.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/reclaiming-our-stories-from-trauma/
Quotes to ponder:
"The thing about defenses is that while they protected us from threats in the past, they hinder us from genuine connection in the present, when no real threat exists."
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