How to Share New Information Effectively

There may be no way to possibly control for all those variables such that you're going to receive that information in a way that doesn't feel threatening. Instead, here is what I recommend: Have a conversation about how you share new information. And maybe have a plan for how to be prepared for that with each other. You might feel like you're walking on eggshells with your partner and they may be feeling like if you're holding out on them that they can't trust you. So we don't want to be there.