How to Avoid Invasion of the Body Snatchers

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We Internalize into our bodies the other person's reaction We have delivered the boundary. We are okay Then the other person has whatever their reaction is or whatever our perception Of their reaction is and what we do is we embody it. We were fine a second ago and now it's like invasion of the body snatchers. It sounds weird, but it's like no You're not yourself anymore. You are now internalizing the imagined feelings of the other person. And so there can be a very clear you don't have to assume or fill in any gaps situation and Yet The same still applies.

Glennon, Abby, and Amanda help us shed guilt through a freeing reframe inspired by a conversation with Dr. Becky Kennedy.

Listen to learn: How to know what is true guilt and what is just the uncomfortable ickiness of defying expectations; how to hold boundaries in order to live shamelessly within our own values; and how to maintain empathy by staying with our own emotions instead of internalizing the emotions of others.

Also, we need your help inventing a word for the “not guilt” feeling!

Get Dr. Becky Kennedy's "Good Inside Guilt Guide," to find out if what you're feeling is truly "guilt" or something else, here: https://forms.gle/Aad1g5LSBNFZoXaN6.

Check out our past conversations with Dr. Becky Kennedy, and the Dr. Brené Brown episodes we talk about today:

Ep 170 The Most Radical Way to Heal: Internal Family Systems with Dr. Becky Kennedy;

Ep 169 Why We Love the Way We Love: Attachment Styles with Dr. Becky Kennedy;

Ep 131 How to Raise Untamed Kids with Dr. Becky Kennedy;

Ep 130 Breaking Cycles and Reparenting Yourself with Dr. Becky Kennedy;

Ep 88 Brené Brown & Barrett Guillen: Sisters Double Date;

Ep 83 Brené Brown: What to Say to Get What You Need;

Ep 49 Dr. Brené Brown: On Holding Boundaries & Facing Our Fears; and

Ep 48 Dr. Brené Brown: How to Know Ourselves & Be Known By Our People.

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