The Risk of Failure

When there is a risk of failure you are more likely to connect with the deeper parts of yourself. If you take out all the risks in a relationship and say well I don't want any risks so I'm going to control this person then everyone around you feels drained because they can't do anything right. You lock the door to vulnerability and being able to connect with others because the world is about you and you alone. The full totality of yourself includes how you feel that includes your emotions at the deeper level  that includes your deepest emotions knowing there's a risk of Failure.