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#553: Jessica Lahey on Parenting, Desirable Difficulties, The Gift of Failure, Self-Efficacy, and The Addiction Inoculation

The Tim Ferriss Show

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The Gift of Failure

There are two ways of looking at this, sort of what we do to kids when we over parent them. By being directive, overly directive, by telling kids what to do, how to do it, giving them every step along the way. We undermine their long term motivation to stay involved in the things we want them to do. Extrinsic motivators like money for grades and home work can also make a kid give up on tasks they don't know how to complete. The most effective teaching tools i have is this really cool thing called desirable difficulties. It's been around for a while, but it's really beautifully written about a book d make it stick from harvard university press

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