The Elicitor of Sham

Shame is ubiquitous we all have it and how we experience it may will be different based on our unique lens of the world and our identity. We live in a world where we are constantly being told like who to be how to be what to be so if you don't feel like you measure up that can be an elicitor of shame. I sat with somebody for five weeks saying I don't have shame, they were able to say oh I didn't know that's what you were talking about there was something wrong with me then you're beginning to have the conversation. You even bring up this idea of this is who I am relative to the shame around me how do you see shame in