Is Itn't Going to Have Healthy Boundaries?

When we call ourselves harsh, hasty, hyper-vigilant, picky and the like, this is us ignoring, dismissing and overriding ourselves in that moment. When we make these judgments about us, it means that we then prioritize trying to be somebody who is the opposite of that. We're too busy performing at the idea of what we think we're supposed to come across as to actually be us.