How to Get Out of a Viral Cycle Where Your Partner Feels Judged Every Time He Talks to Me

Judgment in any relationship is going to pick away at it, and what it does is it erodes love. Every time you feel judgmental or critical, you'll understand why there's a disconnect forming in your relationship. When you do that to somebody, they don't want to be around you. It starts to destroy them from the inside out. And because they love you, they're willing to tolerate it. But the problem is the second problem is they have a conflict inside themselves.