The Importance of Confidence in the Family

There were never conversations with you in the bishop about like premarital sex or anything like that. So he wouldn't have had any reason in his conversations with you to think there were grounds for you not being worthy of following the honor code. You know, again, it's that culture of secrecy in our family where we just don't talk about things. It would have been more comfortable for her to go to the bishop and say something to him and vicariously get the results she wanted.