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How to Talk to People: What do we owe our friends?

The Best of "How To"

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The Importance of Taking Work in Friendship

When you have a healthy relationship, what happens is you begin to include them in your sense of self. So there's a disconnect happening when you're willing to completely upset and let down your friend to meet your own needs. I like the idea of friendship taking effort rather than friendship taking work. If you start from a place of anarchy, where would you want friends to be in your personal valuing system?

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