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Codependence Is an Inside Job
I think that you know codependence if I could just jump back a little be super specific codependence are people who define themselves through their ability to be productive for others or useful to others. We basically grew up in a situation where we had to be precocious probably very young so then they haven't overdeveloped responsibility as adults to other people. Before you solve the problem first make sure it's your problem and then look at your motives for whatever you're doing because anyone that is truly a friend of mine and we have an authentic actual intimate connection will never do something out of obligation on my behalf. It's not about what we say it's about the choices we make and the behavior we make