Therapes - What Are You Feeling?

The enagram is a map for where i am, but it's also a map of where i am in relationship to another. One of the most effective ways i find using the feelings in my work is to say, what are you feeling? Is the first question. Have you felt this way before that you can identify? And it helps to then put those pieces together in a really practical way and help me know, why is this way of engaging so meaningful to me?"