How to Break Down the Wall of Public Life

If you want to break through someone's public life into their private life, you have to get them to spend their resources. Don't have meetings over lunch. Have meetings at the end of the day when they're fielding phone calls and harassing text messages from their spouse. Go to an escape room where you've got a clock that's ticking down and you've got puzzles that you have to solve. It's made for high schoolers and you can't fucking figure it out. Fantastic place to go to just drain somebody of their mental and cognitive resources.