The only difference between someone who has quit porin and someone who hasn't is how willing that person is to feel all the emotions. Even though i've ben doing this forever, even though i'm very, very good at it, i still need someone on the outside who can see a little bit more clearly what i'm doing. I still need some one to help me, walk me through these feelings. So no matter much you know, or how much you think you know, it's nice to have some one on theoutside who can help you.