Ep. 273 - The Doctor Is In Series - Secure or Insecure - What Is Your Attachment Style?
The Social-Engineer Podcast
The Importance of Open Communication in Relationships
This chapter explores the significance of transparent conversations in relationships, focusing on past traumas and financial issues. It highlights the necessity of gradual sharing to maintain stability and recognize attachment styles and potential relationship flags.
Welcome to the Social-Engineer Podcast: The Doctor Is In Series – where we will discuss understandings and developments in the field of psychology.
In today’s episode, Chris and Abbie are discussing Attachment Styles. They will talk about the 4 different types, how they are caused and how to grow from an insecure to a secure style. [Sept 2, 2024]
00:00 - Intro
00:16 - Dr. Abbie Maroño Intro
00:49 - Intro Links
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03:49 - The Topic of the Day: Attachment Styles
05:01 - The Types
05:44 - Secure Attachment
07:32 - Anxious Preoccupied Attachment
09:27 - Primary and Secondary Influences
14:40 - Dismissive Avoidant Attachment
17:42 - Fearful Avoidant Attachment
20:01 - One at a Time
21:09 - Oxytocin Influence
26:30 - The Path Forward
29:51 - See It to Believe It
34:21 - Emotional Well-Being
- Work in Progress - Dr. Abbie Maroño
36:47 - Second Date Sharing
39:19 - Swipe Right
41:15 - Next Month: Judd Shaw
42:12 - Wrap Up & Outro
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