The way out of loneliness is actually to care about others, he says. People most effectively get out of loneliness by stopping worrying so much about their own need for friendship and relating to other people in a way that doesn't demand anything from them. Even little moments of connection already begin to give you the kind of recognition that you crave when you're lonely.

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