Ep 329: Murali Neelakantan Looks at the World
The Seen and the Unseen - hosted by Amit Varma
The Importance of Listening to Women
I grew up with conversation being an information exchange. I didn't see it as an interaction or building of relationships, something deeper than just the words. So this realization also came to me very late. It's not just gender. In my life, at least it was difficult to have a close relationship or warm relationship with anyone because that's not how we grew up. My generation had the naughties. This generation is also awkward with women. They're happy to just text K and be done. But I don't think the men have understood how to communicate.
He gave up a staggeringly successful career to live a quiet life -- and now he shares his wisdom with us. Murali Neelakantan joins Amit Varma in episode 329 of The Seen and the Unseen to talk about the life he has lived and the lessons he has learnt. (FOR FULL LINKED SHOW NOTES, GO TO SEENUNSEEN.IN.) Also check out: 1. Murali Neelankantan on Twitter and LinkedIn. 2. An Idea of a Law School -- NR Madhava Menon, Murali Neelakantan and Sumeet Malik. 3. Akshaya Mukul and the Life of Agyeya -- Episode 324 of The Seen and the Unseen. 4. The Life and Times of Shanta Gokhale — Episode 311 of The Seen and the Unseen. 5. Wanting — Luke Burgis. 6. It is immoral to have children. Here’s why — Amit Varma. 7. The Loneliness of the Indian Woman — Episode 259 of The Seen and the Unseen (w Shrayana Bhattacharya). 8. The Life and Times of Mrinal Pande — Episode 263 of The Seen and the Unseen. 9. Sara Rai Inhales Literature — Episode 255 of The Seen and the Unseen. 10. 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