How to Be Generous Without Feeling Like You Need to Be Available

Sally Kohn: We often confuse being generous and being available. She says it's too easy to blame the individual if, you know, if we start there. The problem starts when people get to make a choice about who do I think is the most accessible or who's the nicest person, she says. "We can try to create more balance and equity by gender, by race, also by functional background"