My parents, i think, were of the idea that hard things to accept shouldn't be avoided. But it meant that when they came up later in life, you would feel destroyed. The shame would destroy you, because you were never allowed to confront it as a child. Things that i found shameful or like wearing glasses, i remember i was like, felt like nirty cause i wore glasses. You could accept them if you were allowed to. And then you could just accept thet things you were ashamed of. They were just a part of who you were.
In an era of fake news and 'alternative facts', the issue of truth and how it is presented to the world has never been more timely. But on a personal level, things are less clear cut. We all tell white lies and withhold info in the name of manners and politeness from time to time and some of the hardest truths can feel very difficult to tell. Micheal Leviton is a writer and musician from Brooklyn whose book, To Be Honest: A Memoir, tells his own story of growing up in a family who, according to Michael, never lied. His upbringing meant that by the age of 29 he could only recall having lied three times in his life. The challenges of being brutally honest on a daily basis have been the basis of much soul searching for the author and also serve as the foundation of a few entertaining tales in his book. He joins Intelligence Squared producer Catharine Hughes to talk about it.
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