Intelligence Squared An Honest Life, with Micheal Leviton
Aug 10, 2022
Micheal Leviton, a Brooklyn writer and musician known for his memoir "To Be Honest," shares his unique upbringing in a brutally honest family. He reflects on the challenges of maintaining such honesty in relationships and dating, revealing the tension between transparency and social expectations. The conversation also explores the struggles of vulnerability in group settings and the complexities of communication across cultures. With humor and insight, Leviton emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and authenticity in forging deep connections.
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Early Honesty and Criticism
- Michael Leviton emulated his music critic father's critical style in his interactions with teachers and classmates.
- This led to humorous, yet sometimes uncomfortable, situations where he challenged norms and questioned rules, like the concept of leap years shifting birthdays.
Shame and Vulnerability
- Leviton's upbringing fostered a unique relationship with shame and vulnerability.
- By accepting perceived flaws and societal judgments, he avoided shame and developed critical thinking towards societal norms.
Family Therapy Camp
- Leviton attended "family therapy camp," where families engaged in public therapy sessions.
- This experience exposed him to raw adult emotions and shaped his perception of honesty, influencing his interactions with teenagers at school.
