"We are spinning our wheels for so long on two very basic, very terrible strategis ra one is, love the sinner, hate the sin," she says. "Tin people will continue to behave terribly toward fat people until they feel personally convinced that it is not a choice." The only thing that meaningfully turns thin people around on this stuff is seeing someone close die of an illness and how badly they were treated by their friends or loved ones,. She writes in Verses: "By any stretch es e imagination, shouting at people from a passing car, that is an abusive thing to do"