Who and How Do I Want to Be When I'm Not Motivated?

I want to have habits in place so that when faced with tempt ation or stress, or fatigue, or anything else, i fall back on my habits. For me, one of em is, i don't indulge more than two times a month, you know. That's who and how i want to be. And then what would it look like to practice being that person to day? I don't have to be perfect, you guys know,. i don't believe in the idea of perfection.