What Are the Gifts Your Parents Gave You?

When asked the question, why are you the way you are, both had the exact same answer with a father like mine, how could I have been anything else? Yeah. The other one grows up to not touch a drop of alcohol, treat his family beautifully, doesn't put them through any of the same things. And that's an interesting kind of easy example of one replicated, one rejected. But we don't know a different reality because we've never really, we've never necessarily lived it. So what I'm saying is very quickly, you can realize with your gifts and gaps, what I've never articulated to this person that I want to live my life differently.