Music and Kink: Unpacking Identity and Connection

In this episode, I sit down with musician and kinky creator Deore to explore the fascinating intersection of music and kink. Known for her bratty sub energy and vulnerable, thought-provoking lyrics, Deore shares how music has become a powerful outlet for self-expression, healing, and connection within the kink community. 

We dive into her creative journey, including how her hit song “Humor Me” reshaped her relationship with her Dom and sparked deeper conversations about vulnerability and shame. She also opens up about balancing kink identity with societal expectations, creating a safe space for listeners to feel seen and understood. 

Whether you’re curious about kink, passionate about music, or both, this episode is packed with insights on how art can transform the way we connect with ourselves and others. Grab your headphones and join us for a candid conversation that blends creativity, empowerment, and authenticity. 

Episode Highlights: 

• 03:12 Discovering kink identity through music 

• 12:25 “Humor Me”: The song that redefined her relationship 

• 18:40 Overcoming shame and embracing vulnerability 

• 26:55 How music builds connection within the kink community 

• 34:20 Advice for communicating your kinks in relationships 

Connect with Deore: 

Instagram: @deorebby 

Spotify: Deore’s Music 

Connect with Me: 

TikTok: @thekinkconsultant 

Instagram: @the_kink_consultant