I think the other thing that is obvious to me here is that there's a difference between the outcome-based focus versus the process like you had said earlier. The sequence of projects can just get in the way of seeing what the actual underlying point of engaging with your activity is, or if it's not work, it could be parenthood. It's another case where parenthood is an atelic activity. There's no particular endpoint that you're trying to get to where you're like, I have now parenthood.It's a relationship. If I could think of all these as subordinate to that and see what changes that brings, I'd be seeing this relationship in the right kind

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