The Relationship Between Victims and Savours

Victims and savours both use each other to achieve emotional highs. It's like an addiction they fulfill in one another. Acts of love are valid only if they are performed without conditions or expectations. People with strong boundaries understand that it's unreasonable to expect two people to accommodate each other 100% and fulfil every need the others. For victims, the hardest thing to do in the world is to hold themselves accountable for their problems. If your partner is going to make a sacrifice for you, it needs to because he or she genuinely wants to,. not because you've manipulated the sacrifice through anger or guilt.