Ike: What would be some good goals to set in your initial conversation that aren't all the way down at the end, down there, i need this person to flip ike? Ike: The goal for the conversation wuld b toud be somethngt you can say out loud to the other person when they would alter. So the goal is, let's try to understand each other. Let's see if we can resolve some of our difference and repair our relationship. Those are the shared goals of the conversation.