The Trigger: How EJ and Tara End Up in an Argument

"I think I'm doing a nice thing and we end up in an argument within, within literally 30 seconds to it," she says. "Even though I want to just continue to be angry at EJ, like I'm, I've got to understand what's going on for me." She writes down her thoughts first before breaking them down into feelings. 'There were probably a lot of thoughts'