The Dangers of Seeking External Validation

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David Goggins: How to Build Immense Inner Strength

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The Dangers of Seeking External Validation

This chapter delves into how individuals are conditioned to seek validation from others and the psychological implications of this behavior. By comparing this instinct to the energy conservation traits of bulldogs, it highlights the risks of relying on external praise for self-worth, with insights from team environments like the SEAL teams.

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In this episode, my guest is David Goggins, retired Navy SEAL, highly accomplished ultramarathoner, best-selling author, and influential public speaker.

David explains how he mastered his inner dialogue to build extraordinary levels of discipline and mental and physical toughness.

He describes how confronting his early hardships, including physical and mental abuse, learning disorders, and obesity, became a practice of deep and excruciating self-reflection — eventually allowing him to transmute those experiences into a superhuman work ethic.

This conversation is a unique window into David Goggins’ process in that it focuses both on the underlying science and how David manages and directs his inner dialogue.

It’s a conversation that will inform and inspire anyone wondering how exactly to go about building discipline and confidence and reach their potential.

Note: This conversation includes profanity. Some content might not be suitable for all audiences and ages.

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