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#434: Jim Dethmer — How to Shift from Victim Consciousness, Reduce Drama, Practice Candor, Be Fully Alive, and More

The Tim Ferriss Show

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Are We Willing to Be Candor?

Candor begins with the ability to differentiate facts from stories. Stories are judgments, opinions, beliefs, interpretations that we make up about the facts. People always don't say they want a more candid relationship with their partner. Debby and I wanted to move all barriers to closeness is not ourselves to each other. It's so easy to hide out for fear of being rejected by others. And debon i've been practising candor for decades - it's an act of incredible vulnerability. Start becoming a person to whom others will reveal themselves candidly. Then as they feel safe to reveal themselves you'll find your relationship becomes more comfortable. So Candor and conscious listening go hand in hand...

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