Are You Weary? Would You Like to Stop for Drink?

When misunderstandings arise in close relationships as a result of these underlying differences in communication styles, it can sometimes send a big message to both parties. Deborah mentions a real life example. She heard of a couple driving in a car, and she had said to him, a you thirsty dear. Would you like to stop for drink? And he wasn't, so he said no. Then later it turned out that she was annoyed because she had wanted to stop.