How to Find a Facilitator Who's Secure Attachment

It can be, but it's not necessary. What you want in somebody who's facilitating is that they have done IPF enough to actually understand how it's supposed to work internally. And the other question is I noticed that I'm filtering through all my friends and noticing or acquaintances or whatever and noticing that they all seem like they have insecure attachment. They're insecure attachment as much as I know. And then I don't want to have anything to do with them because I because I want secure attachment people and I don't know where they are.