Elder could have been fixated on my compliance in this situation. But instead, he looked for a third alternative, a third way. That's the power of positional thinking. If you focus on positions, then you will often find yourself stuck. You will tend to find a third way where there seems to be no way. What about you? Let's go back to those questions. Have you ever been at odds with someone? Have you ever wanted eggs and they want why? And the harder you push, the harder they push back. The more unreasonable they seem, the more irate you feel. Then, of course, you become more unreasonable. It doesn't have to always be