Initiation vs Desire

In the couples that you work with is desire or initiation, better work for this is initiation. Is there a biological reason for that? Is it a cultural reason? Is it cause? It strikes me asat ther the males would initiate more than the females. But who really initiates or enjoys it? Because people do. Some people like both rolls and would like to share it with a partner. Other people really like being the initiator. They just really enjoy it. And othersreally like being the one is pursued. You know, there could be all these different kinds of ways to a play with power and to and i think initiation, there's power in both positions.