"I'm so happy you said the word aftercare because it's something that's still not spoken about much but is so, so important," she says. "Something as simple as a cuddle, an intimate encounter, a conversation after that hookup can change the whole experience and help you like wean off the crash almost." 'If they don't want to do that, if they won't give you that, I think it says everything about the hookup,' he adds. "'Everything here is sex positive, just deliver it in a positive way' - one of my favourite lines from The Office"'You're never going to have that experience ever again,'" writes model-turned-