Sexual Trama - Control and Pleasure

Most of the work for survivors is around this idea of relinquishing control. Can i relinquish control and still feel safe? Do i know i'm choosing people in my life that have my back, and that when i'm vulnerable, it will be reciprocated? Vulnerability can't be a one way street. This is a process,. chris, what you and i are doing right now each other, as we disclose these little pieces of ourselves, that's reciprocal vulurability. And so is every sexual encounter, whether it's a new one with a first date and a first kiss, or a spouse of 20 years reaching out to initiate intimacy. I think we can access pleasure,