Mistaking Intensity for Love and Trauma Bonding

In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik, MD is joined by psychotherapist and attachment expert Jessica Baum to explore the science of attachment styles and their impact on intimacy, relationships, and emotional health. Together, they discuss how childhood experiences shape adult romantic patterns, why anxious and avoidant individuals are often drawn together, and practical strategies for healing insecure attachments. Listeners will gain valuable insights into building safer, more fulfilling connections and recognizing the difference between true intimacy and intensity in relationships.
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▶️Chapters:

00:00:00 Introduction 00:00:49 Attachment styles overview 00:03:59 Parenting and attachment 00:07:49 Anxious and avoidant dynamics 00:12:14 Sex and intimacy patterns 00:16:44 Disorganized attachment explained 00:23:05 Healing attachment outside romance 00:26:00 Intensity vs. real intimacy 00:33:50 Modern culture and avoidance 00:40:19 Letting go of unhealthy bonds 00:51:41 Trauma impact on sexual health

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