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You Can’t Always Want What You Like

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

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The Fun Scale: Embracing Discomfort for Growth

This chapter introduces the 'fun scale', distinguishing between type 1 fun, which is easy and enjoyable, and type 2 fun, which involves effort and discomfort but results in personal growth. It explores the paradox of 'chosen suffering', where individuals willingly engage in challenging activities for deeper satisfaction and meaning. Through examples like mountaineering and the concept of 'flow', the chapter emphasizes the psychological benefits of pursuing endeavors that initially seem dreadful, highlighting the struggle between instant gratification and fulfilling challenges.

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