One of the things I learned as managers, people are a huge pain in the ass. Even if you're doing a good job or a half decent job, like people find ways to always want more. Figure it out first, learn how to do it, at least to some degree. And then you're probably 200% better at everything that comes after that. If you really want to seem like the boss because you are the boss, then be a boss at doing things and showing people by leading by example.