If Only Mind, Something's Wrong

When we're in if only mind, whether it's for the partner or for the bowl of ice cream or whatever, we're leaning forward. We're not in the one place where we can actually find true happiness and openness and presence. When we're in the something's wrong mode, we are pushing away and contracting inward. It's just a different kind of, a different type of pulling away. There's trouble around the corner. So what does the somethings wrong look like when were blaming other people for what they are doing wrong? How often do we have a felter and somebody else we're holding with resentment? O i always think of charlotte joko back,