Do Coffee Dates Work?

Is it lame to suggest a coffee date? Or does every date have to be, like, let's get a drink, or let's get iill a'll net. What's the most efficient date? Is it like coffee? Do women see coffee dates as being like, a, like a weird, friendly, non intimate, yes, yes. Does day dating work in this um, i mean, isn't depends on the purse yet?