The Importance of Projection in Relationships

I think I'm starting to learn that I'm a huge projector. Not just in the negative way because when I first learned about it, it would be probably advice that you gave me. A lot of the things that I see as I don't want to say negatives but struggles that I have with getting used to a relationship are things that I personally struggle with. And then the same thing with giving things and when it comes to people pleasing and my different love languages and sharing gifts, I give a lot of thethings that I'm wanting people to give to me or maybe it's just myself to give to them.